While your vehicle is running, all of it's electrical components draw power from the alternator, when the alternator cannot keep up with current demands the electrical components start to draw the left over amperage from the battery(s).
XS Power is made by Powermaster. Yellow tops are made by Optima.
There is absolutely nothing special or different about XS power batteries they are standard AGM batteries, marketed toward car audio...
Optima actually has parts of their batteries patented e.g. Spiral Cell technology making the actual plates less prone to breakage and therefore inherently much more shock / abuse resistant.
The bottom line is there are regulations on battery manufactueres requireing them to produce what they claim.
A 31 series battery is a 31 series battery. Car batteries have been largely unchanged since the turn of the century.
I recommend going with Optima simply because a D31 Yellow top is $215 while a 31 series XS is more like $350...For no reason.
A battery can be ruined in a single day in the wrong hands. The fact that you are mentioning other people's reviews of batteries shows a lack of knowledge of what it is a battery even is.
A battery is a battery, if it works, it works...If you don't maintain it properly -- which doesn't mean put it in, hook it up, and then complain on a forum when it fails because you did nothing proactive to maintain it's life span -- you will damage it and ruin it.