they don't take it they place a hold on it.... if he refuses to take to post office
ebay contacts post office for you(as that is a not on the buyer, but the shipper).... this all is not true neither, i mean if you let them they will do that but if you contact them, there are so many steps you can take to prevent all of that.....
ebay cannot release funds until one, you give permission, it has escalated past claim and has had the 30 dy review and
ebay decided to refund after return then you still get the 2dy - 5dys for dispute of returned package.... they have a whole seller protection program just like the buyers, not as in tune but still gets the job done, i've had over 35 disputes and several claims, packages destroyed, i've never lost a claim, dispute or anything of the nature with
ebay... its all about how you use their system.....