Ported and sealed boxes sound the same.
What I mean by this is that the vast majority of the sound characteristics made are made by the woofer itself.
All the box really does is change the frequency response. That's pretty much it. The final Q of the sub + enclosure vary a little bit but if built for a flat frequency response, sealed or ported, you'll be typically between 0.6 and 0.7 for both boxes. In the end, the major difference is only frequency response. The sub will sound the same. You play a 60Hz to 200Hz range in music with both enclosures, the sub will play almost exactly the same.
What does change is the frequency response, and this is where the box option becomes important.
Basically you have a sub. It has some frequency response. Let's say it peaks between 70Hz and 200Hz and rolls off on both sides. Let's say it has a Qts of 0.40.
You toss this sub in a box. What this does is modify the Q (relative damping) of the sub. You aim for 0.707 for the sealed box. The relative spring force goes up (air in box becomes a helper spring), and you get a more extended low end response from the sub. Now the roll off point drops down to 40Hz.
You toss this sub in another box, this time ported, tuned for a flat response. The Q again goes up but to around 0.60 instead. Low end response goes up again. We add the port too which is a tuned column of air that has a resonance frequency. The port acts like an EQ boost. We pick a frequency below the roll off point of the sealed box, let's say 30Hz for this sub, and we get a flat, extended response down to 25Hz. The box bumps up the low end response. The port bumps up the low end response. The only side effect of the ported design is that the port uses the energy from the back sound wave coming off the back side of the speaker inside the box. This means the port is out of phase with the front side and you get some group delay effect from this, typically a 15ms to 25ms delay for frequencies around the port tuning frequency. The delay is somewhat undesirable but not a big deal as long as it's not high enough to be noticeable.
Through all of this the sub is the same sub and roughly with the same relative damping. The sound from the sub is the same. It sounds the same. All that is different is the frequency response.
Now placed in a car, we have a secondary issue, cabin gain. This is another EQ boost source but this time a sloping one, typically start at around 60Hz and ramping up roughly at 12dB/oct. from there. Where this starts has to do with the physical dimensions of the car. In the home, there is also a gain effect, but because the room is a lot larger, the starting point is a bit lower.
In a car, the goal is to exactly counter that gain effect with the sub + enclosure natural roll off. If you get it right, the in-car frequency response will be flat. If your sub rolls off too early, the bass can sound somewhat anemic. If your sub doesn't roll off soon enough, you can get a boomy, bloated response. Note that cabin gain is roughly 12dB/oct. The natural roll off of a sealed enclosure is 12dB/oct. They match. For a ported enclosure, it is much steeper. They don't match. As well, the gain effect happens early enough in a car where a ported enclosure really isn't needed for most any sub. This sort of makes sealed enclosures a better fitting option for most car installs. At the same time in-home and with the gain effect happening much later, it makes ported enclosures a better fit in home theater setups.
Now EQing can fix anything in this regard. Ported or sealed, a sub that rolls off at 50Hz or 30Hz, it really doesn't matter. You can just run over the bass frequencies with an EQ (decent one with a good number of bands) and smooth out the in-car response. This feature makes neither option advantageous.
So what's better? Sealed will be more limited by excursion. To play low, you need to move a lot of air. This means it is preferable to pick larger diameter woofers and woofers with more excursion, i.e. not a 10" with 8mm xmax. Ported enclosures have an advantage of using the port to improve low frequency output and requiring less cone movement to do so. This makes the ported design advantageous for woofers of smaller diameter and of less excursion as you can get more output from them then with a sealed design. A ported design has more group delay which can be problematic if very high. Sealed enclosures have very little. One could argue this is a strike against sound quality. Then again ported enclosures typically operate the sub at lower excursion levels meaning the sub is operating more so in its linear range, a bonus in SQ for ported enclosures.
In the end, neither are better.
Really the right option is the one that best fits the end goal. You will pick a sub + enclosure design that will give the correct end frequency response that when used in the car will give a pretty flat frequency response. That's about it.